The discovery of the female G-spot caused a real sensation at one time, although it is still not certain that it exists. At the same time, few people know about a similar male zone, but every guy definitely has one and it is much easier to find it. All you need is good lubrication and gentle fingers. And of course, absolute trust, as not every girl will have access to the most intimate things.
Where is the G spot in men?
Unlike women, who have to search for a mysterious zone literally at random, men don't have to guess its location. The "G" spot in men, behind which the well-known prostate gland hides, is located on the front wall of the rectum, about 5 cm above the anus. To the touch it resembles a tubercle the size of a walnut or chestnut and at the moment of excitement it swells.
To find a man's G-spot, it is not necessary to examine the anus. You can also influence the sensitive area from the outside. It is located between the anus and the base of the penis, approximately in the middle of the perineum (there is generally no hair in this region). For some men, the erogenous zone may be slightly shifted to the left or right. To find out, you can ask your spouse or girlfriend to caress your perineal area with their tongue. From the outside, the prostate can be felt like an almond-shaped seal.
Do all men like to caress the G-spot?
The sensations of prostate stimulation can be very different. Some guys experience incredible pleasure (literally - to the point of tears), for others it helps to maintain excitement, for others the pressure on the G-spot seems unpleasant and even painful. But it's definitely worth a try so as not to deprive your man of a special experience. The main thing is to act cautiously and slowly, without sudden movements or use of force.
A good way to test your response to stimulation of the area is to examine it during masturbation:
- By applying pressure to the area between the scrotum and anus just before ejaculation, release can be delayed.
- The impact on the process forces more blood into the penis, making its pulsation more powerful and pleasurable.
- The strong rhythmic pressure imitates the prostate contraction process, increasing the intensity of the final phase of orgasm.
- For greater pleasure, it is recommended to caress the G-spot when reaching maximum erection, as soon as the body of the penis swells to its fullest extent. If the sensations are unpleasant or imperceptible, wait a while. If at the moment of full arousal there is still no reaction, perhaps this area of a particular man is not considered erogenous. In this case, it's best to focus on stroking the scrotum and penis, or exploring the area again later.
How to properly stimulate a man's G-spot?
If there is embarrassment or uncertainty on the part of the partner, the first experience may not be successful. But it is possible that subsequent research will bring more pleasure if man can truly free himself. Help in these games will be special devices (finger attachments, vibrating bullets, small vibrators), which are presented in a wide range in adult stores. You can caress the G-spot in at least two ways:
- From the inside. The finger or toy should be well lubricated with lubricant and then inserted 5 cm or more into the anus, moving towards the pubis. You can find the sensitive "g" spot by the tubercle on the wall of the rectum. And then you need to massage carefully, observing the man's reaction.
- Outside. Here you can perform stimulation in two ways - orally or manually. A man will be delighted to touch the G-spot with the tip of his tongue, which can be alternated with passionate kisses. When stroking with your hands, a mild water-based lubricant will help improve gliding and give your partner more pleasure. It is necessary to massage the area with the tip of your finger, using circular movements and light pressure.
At the moment of orgasm, the G-spot will pulse. To increase pleasure, you need to influence the rhythm of contractions. Adherents of Eastern teachings claim that in this way it is possible to delay ejaculation and prolong sexual intercourse. In this sense, the male G-zone was called the "million dollar spot", and sexologists developed special techniques to delay ejaculation. These exercises will be useful for sexual dysfunctions.
Is caressing the G-spot beneficial for men?
In fact, stimulation of the zone can be compared to a light prostate massage. Only the latter is done in a medical environment and does not always bring pleasant sensations, associating men with negativity and embarrassment. Caressing the G erogenous point in a romantic setting is a completely different matter: both the atmosphere and the presence of a loved one are conducive to pleasure. This is a good opportunity to strengthen relationships and bring them more intimate connotations.
As for health benefits, regularly stroking the prostate will be a good prevention of diseases of the male organ. But only on condition that at this moment there are no pathologies on this side and the massage itself is carried out gently, without unnecessary pressure. If G-spot stimulation causes pain or discomfort, it is best to consult a doctor.
It is not recommended to influence the prostate region if a man has chronic and acute diseases of the reproductive system: urethritis, prostatitis, prostate hyperplasia or tuberculosis, urinary disorders, hemorrhoids, fissures in the anus, etc. use mild oral stimulation, excluding anal and manual G-spot massage.